Have you heard of a person who has no friends or no company to remain with? Or someone who enters the room and people go silent? Or his or her presence seems like a burden to other people? Do you have the same issue? If yes, then you should keep some habits of yours at bay.
You should nail it that you have some bad habits that you need to get rid of.
- Do not be a Whiner.
Don’t be a cry baby, it irritates people around you. Just imagine that someone is continuously wailing about something in front of you and is telling every little detail about his or her issues. Obviously you would get fed up. So it is natural for others to get irritated if you are a downer always.Keep positive attitude towards life, think about some nicer things when you are going to complain about something.
- Don’t be a chatterbox
If you talk too much, this would also cause the people to disappear when you approach them. Your chattiness can make people reluctant to have your company. Try to talk less and purposeful. Take turns for listening and speaking. Listen to others as well.
- Do not be digitally distracted
If you are always the one who is persistently busy in talking on phone, texting or emailing then you should better be alone rather than in a gathering. People would get irritated if you are busy in texting or emailing while they are talking to you. This will give them the message that you don’t care what they have to say to you.
- Do not be Pompous
Being snobbish would leave you abandoned. Don’t give the impression that you know better than others do. Boasting about your knowledge or superiority would not render you anything good.Never give advice when you are not asked for.
- Do not be Insincere
It is better to have a different opinion than others rather than being insincere in your opinion. Don’t be fake, people would get to know it. Be sincere with your perspective but don’t be forceful in explaining them.
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