Things have changed over the years; every year new trends are coming up and has affecting everyone around the world especially new generation. Our generation is so much into social media and technologies, but we are mostly known for losing faith in love. Some people find it easy to fall in love, others not so much. We tend to fall in love with people who meet a certain criteria in our mind. Does it still exist? What are the factors that led us to give up on love so fast?
We live in a culture that provides us with fast access to just about anything. If we want food we’ll have it delivered with a phone call, and if we’re bored we can use endless entertaining apps on our phone to get rid of boredom. But it also affects our love lives as it has become an addiction.
Fear of commitment:
Some people have commitment issues and don’t want to accept the term label of being official. Being “official” can suggest less freedom and less sexual variety. The hook-up culture is so common in society these days. It allows minimal time for commitment, minimal emotional attachment and more opportunities for physical pleasure.
Drugs & Booze:
Drugs and booze is the common form of self-medication. Not everyone smokes or drinks but it has become a trend among our generation that when we feel depressed, we go for more intense substance. However, these substances can confuse your mind, and they are well known to be love’s worst enemy.
Almost every person has many multiple partners but at the end it makes you empty and alone. At first it will feel very exciting, but as you sleep around more you’ll face difficulties in finding true love because you’re wasting your time with people who mean nothing to you but just a time pass. It has become a sport.
Every one of us is egocentric to a certain degree. It’s a part of human nature. We think of our needs and ourselves first like the whole world revolves around us. If you want your relationship to last you have to sacrifice or compromise a lot and include your partner in your future plans and goals.
Perfection does not exist!!! We always look for our perfect partner, but we will never find such individual. The whole perfection state of mind only exists in Disney movies. Because you grow up watching Disney so you expect happy endings or fairy tale endings. If you keep on searching for such quality you will be disappointed at the end.
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